Wednesday, May 6, 2020
A Relationship Between Two Loved Ones Revolve Around...
A relationship between two loved ones revolve around trust, communication, loyalty, respect and happiness. Most relationships die, and not in the romantic ââ¬Å"Death do us partâ⬠way but in the ââ¬Å" I hate you.. I hope you die..â⬠kinda way. You should end a relationship when lying, infidelity, too much dominance and different priorities are involved. In the beginning of every relationship youââ¬â¢re having the best time of your life, you think you found the one, you absolutely positively love everything about that person and the one thing you donââ¬â¢t like itââ¬â¢s most likely something minor. Letââ¬â¢s say youââ¬â¢re out one day, you catch your partner looking at the opposite sex for longer than they should have and of course you ask ââ¬Å" who are you looking at?â⬠â⬠¦show more contentâ⬠¦According to ââ¬Å"When Lying is Goodâ⬠by Elizabeth Segran, she states ââ¬Å" The truth is that we all lie but sometimes itââ¬â¢s with the intention of sparing the feelings of others or preventing others from experiencing psychological harmâ⬠(Fastcompany). Whether itââ¬â¢s lying to prevent harm or lying in general itââ¬â¢s never the right thing to do. It prevents you from having trust, allowing your relationship to have arguments which leads to a break up anyways. Before your relationship gets worse and youââ¬â¢re doing is holding on to a thread, itââ¬â¢s better if you leave that relationship. The tiniest lies always lead to bigger and bigger lies. It is hard to be in a relationship with a person that you have to question every move. Such as , when your partner receives a text, your first response is ââ¬Å"who is that,â⬠or when he/she says Iââ¬â¢m going out with my friends, you say ââ¬Å" with who? when? where?â⬠this all happens because your not sure what to believe, you donââ¬â¢t trust your partner. Suppose you are the one thatââ¬â¢s lying to your partner, should you leave that relationship? Yes, because in the long run guilt will sneak up on you and then thereââ¬â¢s no reason to continue in a relationship like that. Even if the lie isnââ¬â¢t detected, the piling up of lies tend to make your relationship shallower and less meaningful and it could be that living with the guilt of lying is toxic in itself. See not only is lying bad for your relationship but lying can internally affect you by
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